Have a lot of friends indeed part of the fun because you're surrounded by people who love you and also attention. What's more ahead of your wedding, for sure people nearby never ceased to offer help and also give attention and support to the survival of your marriage. It can be good, but it could also be a problem for yourself. Yes, to determine who becomes the companion of the bride. Sense of confusion and fear of offending the feeling is definitely there, and sometimes like to make you can't choose at all. Well, so that you are freed from the problems that, let's look at in How To Choose Bridesmaids .
1. Ask yourself, how long and seberkualitas what is friendship?
The duration of the friendship indeed be important, but the quality of the friendship you will also be aspects that should be considered. If you guys are friends since the school first but you guys only meet once a year even your best friend does not know much about your husband, how could he be your escort?
Choose companions who are long you know and also indeed the relationship of friendship quality.
2.how faithful ?
Just ask yourself, whether the person is a loyal friend or just come at a time when the quickness of course? Be a companion to the bride and groom not only shows who people terpercayamu, but people who are really closest inner and outer you and also really have a relationship a strong friendship with you.
3. Is he in every your sad?
When preparation the wedding, you will be exposed to fatigue, anger, boredom or even want to get out of the game. This is where the role of the companion of the bride needed. In addition to helping take care of the wedding preparations, he is also supposed to be a loyal person to be around you ahead of the wedding arrived and become the person terpercayamu to tell a story. When sad, upset and even wanted to split, he also shall be a people who remind you how your love to the couple and the problem of the preparation of the wedding is just the initial hurdle before the building of the household.
4. How close is he with your partner?
Not only be on your side, the companion of the bride also must be people who understand and close with your partner. Actually, a friend of yours is a friend of your partner also.
5. Does he have flexible time?
Friends closest to you may have recently given birth, or friends closest to you may be recently promoted to board position, or even just transferred to outside the city. Then what should you do? Remind yourself that the bridesmaids should be with you before the wedding. It will feel the weight of the people closest to you are not around or are busy with their own affairs ahead of the wedding therefore you don't need it to still be the main. Better, you consider again your friend number two than he is clearly not maybe you're forced to handalkan because they have other obligations in her life.
6. What you will be as close as this coming five years?
Your friend may come back into your life because it is happy to hear the good news that one of her friends would belong to someone. Maybe now kedekakatan you is only temporary, just ahead of the wedding. Maybe after this, he will return to life as before. Than have fun with your new, better you go back to your old you know the old outside and inside, good and bad, happy and sad that you know that you will continue along until many years into the future.
7. Is he the guy to understand?
Important legal to choose bridesmaids which can be understand on your own and also your taste so that he can help realize the wedding of your dreams, instead of causing confusion with the new options in accordance with his taste.
8. Do not choose just because you selected
Could be you be a maid of someone because you have become a good friend during this time, as well as a friend who is understanding. But, bersikapkan objective. If he applies the same? Whether he can ever understand you? Do you really establish a relationship of friendship quality? Don't until you select it only because the feeling is not good because you're chosen to be the companion of the bride.